Online store just sent me Single Sided ram!?!?!?! So I now have the same problem as you. I have double sided installed, and got an extra stick to increase it. But either the motherboard does not like mixing the two types, or does not fully support the single sided.
No crash yet on one stick of either. But get BSOD on occasion with both.
Best of all? I cannot specify/choose single or double when ordering. So I cannot even ask for an older/compatible chip, as they all have the same ref number (even from manufacture).

Seeing if a bios update will fix it. Oh, and I've only got 4gb. :P